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How Did I Get Here?

Detours to My Final Destination.

When I am at my highest and life is going great, when I find myself at my lowest, thinking things just couldn't possibly get any worse, I ask myself

"HOW DID I GET HERE!"

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This is my memoir, one blog post at a time. Some days you will read and feel my pain and cry with me.  Some days you'll hate me for hurting someone who was innocent and probably didn't deserve the destruction I caused.

 

Stay, read, come back and feel free to comment.  I can take it, the good, bad and ugly things you have to say.  I'm finally at peace with my real story.  For a long time, I lied about my story.  I was always the victim when asked about my marriage and my husbands affairs.  I never did wrong and was never at fault. 

I'm laying it all out there, here's the truth of how my marriage fell apart. How I picked up the pieces of my life and moved forward to find happiness.

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Thanks for stopping and Enjoy!

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